im really confused
Stalker
Hi, this is the 30 year old Aries that dated the 30 year old Capricorn. We just broke up and now I have this crazy stalker. My cap guy was like my closest friend. I felt safe. Should I tell him for my own safety? I feel he won’t believe me but he the only reliable person I know. I just moved to where I met my bf. He wants to be friends and I said I wanted to move on and now he pushed me away but not entirely. He left it up to me…I don’t know what to do now. We just broke up but at least if I tell him I will feel safe.
It’s probably not the best idea, but if you really had nobody else to go to, I recommend that you tell him, just so someone knows. If anything happens to you, he’ll know what to do, where you could be etc. Do you have anyone else you could go to? Remember, security comes first. You have to tell someone.
Potential Husband
I’m 30 and he’s 30. I’m an aries and he’s a capricorn. We both have what the other needs. He’s an undergrad in physics. He wants to study astrophysics. I have a number of accomplishments already in my career as I now go for a PhD and establish a business. He said he liked me but I know he loves me.
i always wondered why i love being alone
I thought i was antisocial and couldnt figure out why, but now
i understand its my capricorn moon- I cant stand big family get togethers where theres tons of people, small family get togethers are ok, but not really good as socializing for fun!
Anonymous asked: I'm confused. This cap dude is really into me... in person he calls my name and teases me like 24/7. but online if i ever try to talk to him, he either never replies or replies but doesn't try to make conversation. It makes me think he hates me but then wait he does loves me ...whaaat.. im sure he's not busy ALL the time?
I can’t say for sure, but if a Capricorn guy is sincere about his “interest” in you (if he isn’t just playing around), he will probably act sincere. The only reasons I can think of for a Capricorn guy not initiating conversation online are that he’s either busy with something else or he’s shy and insecure. If it’s unlikely that he’s busy all the time, he would have to be too shy to not talk to you, or be genuinely uninterested in you to not notice that you were online to start with. If he flirts with you, then he is clearly not shy. From experience, guys who flirt a lot in person and ignore you totally when you’re alone aren’t really in it for the real deal - this is not a specific Capricorn male trait. Chances are he’s not worth it, even if he’s attracted to you because if he wanted a serious relationship, he would make it happen or make it blatantly obvious that he does.
Anonymous asked: should I ask this cappy guy if he likes me.. or just give him a hug? I'm 99.99% sure that he likes me. But i don't know if he'll back off after that so advice pleasee!!
If you’re that sure that he likes you back, then I’d say just go for it! I think you should tell him how you feel and he’ll find a way to express his affection to you :)
Capricorn confessions:
We’re literally workaholics.
Anonymous asked: hi :) I'm a taurus girl. And I think this capricorn guy likes me..He always finds time to be with me (etc etc), and I like him back. What should I do to get him to ask me out?
Looks like he might be interested in you! You can normally tell that a Cap guy likes you if he wants to spend time with you (they can even get a bit clingy at times). Normally I would say just go for it and tell him how you feel, but if he’s not ready for a relationship, you might not get the answer you wanted. It takes a significant amount of time for Capricorns to jump into a relationship and the time varies depending on the individual. You will have to read him and make sure he’s ready before you wanna drop any hints. He will usually send you signals, but the most obvious one is constantly showing up around you and initiating conversation, unless he is particularly shy. Otherwise, you can always wait for him to make the first move, because I assure you that once a Cap guy knows that he’s capable of pursuing you and a secure relationship, he WILL ask you out. Caps don’t have a problem with initiating as long as he is confident enough that he will succeed. I suppose you can encourage him by showing similar kinds of affection. I would suggest being kind and welcoming in conversation, be willing to listen to his ambitions, plans and interests and discuss these things with him. Tell him about yourself, he will want to know everything about you if he likes you (they are obsessive creatures, trust me). Be genuinely interested in talking to and being around him so that you make yourself available. It might seem like a long wait, but if you do it right it will be worth it. Be very careful not to stop leading him on, or else he might take it as a form a rejection. Remember, Capricorn males are very sensitive on the inside. They too need reassurance.
exoriarealiquis asked: Hey, I'm a Capricorn female with an Capricorn rising and Aries moon, and I can't understand WHY I find gemini guys so attractive. I can't stand their multiple personalities, but I always end up falling in love with them. Do you think it has something to do with my aries moon? xx
Haha, I believe so! I’m not an expert on Aries but I have encountered enough to hold a brief understanding of their personality type. I believe that when it comes to physical attraction, moon sign compatibility play a much larger role while it seems to me that sun sign compatibility is more reliable even though it may not be apparent to us. This explains why some of us don’t so called “end up” with the guy/girl of our dreams. Even though we might be attracted to someone does not make them our best match. That is just my theory, coming solely from my knowledge of the sun and moon signs. If you’re lucky, your guy might be the best of both worlds so don’t take my word for it. And just a heads up, don’t rely solely on starsign compatibility to find your soulmate. You have to do the discovering yourself - so trust your own judgement and do whatever you can to determine whether he’s the right one for you!!
I read your question incorrectly the first time - you were talking about your rising sign being in Capricorn. I’m not clear on ascendent signs, but it would be rational to believe that they play the smallest and least reliable role in compatibility, simply because the rising sign is a mask that we wear often to hide our sun signs (true identity).
I’m a Capricorn female
These are just examples of what I have experienced.
1. My mom is a Virgo and there are things that she says and does that really grinds my gears. I have yet to get my license and so I went to take my actual driving portion of the test and I failed it the first time. The second time I failed it and instead of taking that as a sign she pushed me into making an appointment. You can guess what happened next: I failed a third time. When you fail 3 times they take your permit and you have to redo the process (filling out the application, taking the written test) all over again. Afterwards she tells me ‘maybe I shouldn’t have pushed you, you weren’t ready yet’ so now I’m just unmotivated into taking it again.
2. One of my best friends is a Capricorn but we’re nothing alike, I don’t know if it is because I am older. She stops liking certain things for the shallowest of reasons and she lets how people act get to her and she rants to me about it when I could care less about the people she is talking about. She doesn’t seem to know that people treat her a certain way because that’s the way she acts towards them.
3. One of my good friends is an Aries and I like how she sees things in a way I wouldn’t before. She often encourages me when I fall into one of my slumps and points me to the path I could take without pushing me into doing it.
4. This is more for advice than anything: I should be in college but I have no clue what I should take, what I should pursue. My mother keeps saying ‘just take business’, but I don’t want to take something I wouldn’t be interested in and end up wasting my time. What should I do?
Those are some interesting contradictions of the general Capricorn personality type, but we are who we are for a number of reasons. Your star sign does not rule your personality or character, it is only a fraction of who you are. It is an individual’s choice on whether they wish to believe in astrological personality readings, but I do advise people to be completely honest with themselves. (Don’t agree that a trait or description applies to you just because it sounds appealing) In my case, I think star sign personalities can be extremely general, but some details are specific enough to make them believable or “probable.” I don’t rely on star sign descriptions - I prefer getting to know the person before I label them as a ‘Capricorn’ or an ‘Aries’ just because their birthdays coincidentally fall into a specific time of the year. This approach helps to determine the accuracy and credibility of these so-called readings.
Just wanted to get that out there. But enough of my rambles. In response to your question, I believe you should go with what will make you happy in the long term. For “typical” Capricorns, going against parental expectations tend to make us feel irresponsible and disobedient. We like to be in harmony with our authority figures. If you aren’t sure what you want to take, it doesn’t hurt to try business. You might find that you actually enjoy the subject, and speaking from a typical Capricorn’s point of view, business isn’t a bad choice. I think you really need to do your research into potential courses that you can take in college and come up with a purpose/goal in your life. Although it’s helpful to take into consideration the opinions of others, you’ve got to listen to yourself this time. Discover what makes you happy and what you want to do for a living. When you have that down, you can choose the corresponding career pathway. You don’t have to listen to anybody else, including your parents. If they love you, they will support you.
